In fact, I recommend it if you’re going to get what you want. I mean, don’t pester the hell out of someone else, but you can be dogged with yourself. Be gentle, yet tenacious with others from whom you seek assistance on your mission, but drive yourself crazy with doing more, being more and having more until you have what you want. Thoughts of a life you ridiculously love should feel free to stalk you in the wee hours of the morning, as you drive to work, and do menial tasks. Create a “to do” list each night before bed. Dream dreams of the sparkly life with work, relationships, and a self you crazy want to step into. See yourself as the person your role models will want to hang out with. Feel the energy. Do one thing more. Then another. Get what you want.